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Wedding Date, The (2005)
IMDB rating: 5.40
Plot: “The Wedding Date” centers around Kat Ellis (Messing), who returns to her parents’ London home for her sister’s wedding. Afraid of confronting her ex-fiance, who dumped her two years before, she hires a top-drawer male escort (Mulroney) to pose as her new boyfriend.
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Directors: Kilner Clare
Actors: Mulroney Dermot,Davenport Jack,Sheffield Jeremy,Egan Peter,James Jolyon,Harris C. Gerod,Barrett Martin,Simon Jay,Comedy,Romance,
Is a woman staying-at-home in any way connected to a woman expecting a man to pay for all her dates/gifts/etc?
The last three "women" I happened to meet were…..I won’t say. I am very attractive by the way (9.6 on many pictures on hotornot), they were also attractive and they were either 1 or 2 years younger than me. They never bought anything for me and complained when I didn’t buy them anything very expensive. 90% of women wants the guy to buy the first drink in the bar, have nearly all their dates paid for, and their boyfriend to fund their shopping habits, and to buy them the more expensive wedding ring in marriage. If he doesn’t pay, he allegedly "doesn’t love her" and "doesn’t know how to treat her" and lacks manners and chivalry. The women still make a lot of money but still wants the guy to pay for everything, just like in marriage where the woman’s money is hers and his money is "ours".
However, it is my STRONGEST belief that the arrangement of staying-at-home is INEXTRICABLY, to the hilt, absolutely linked with the entitlement mentality outlined in that last paragraph. It is why there is a 30:1 stay-at-home mother to stay-at-home dad ratio. It is no mistake, it is NO coincidence that 30 to 1 woman stay at home.
Is staying-at-home connected to a woman demanding dates/shopping/gifts paid for? I want to know what you think of the relationship between the two (staying-at-home and the all the money the man spends in a relationship/woman paying 0-5% as much back). In both scenarios, money is going from the man to a woman, and both seem to indicate an entitlement mentality that a man must do a lot of paying, with sex being a factor. When a man pays mortgage and the bills as a breadwinner, that is MONEY just like money in a date/gifts/shopping.
"i am very attractive by the way (9.6 on many pictures on hotornot), ‘
LMFAO
Rev. Raptor | Feb 06, 2010
Ummmmm….I don’t know why that seems to be a great revelation to you. That’s pretty much how our society works for the most part. In caveman terms…You Man..You Hunt and bring back food. She Woman…she gathers, have babies and keeps cave going. Both important.
JustSaying | Feb 06, 2010
Maybe your last three relationships didn’t turn out well because you were…..I won’t say.
Sounds like your 9.6 rating on hotornot.com hasn’t done much for you.
I find most men with your mentality are just controlling and could never be man enough to have a real relationship.
Bell | Feb 06, 2010
The other answerers are right to make fun of you, but I’ll add that if a person shows herself to be greedy and avaricious while you’re dating her, it’s likely things won’t improve during a marriage. Since you seem overly concerned with marrying someone who wants to stay at home, I suggest to you to start dating women who take their career very seriously and discuss with her–as early on in your relationship as is practical–your strong negative feelings about this kind of relationship.
Also, "30:1 stay-at-home mother to stay-at-home dad ratio" is not synonymous with "30 to 1 woman stay at home."
Bee | Feb 07, 2010
YES!!! I agree with you that women who expect to stay at home and not work while their husband works to support the family is wrong and selfish. And YES those are the women who expect men to pay for everything. That is why I think a healthier marriage is where both parties work outside the childcare work…and share the parenting responsibilities.
NewDreams | Feb 07, 2010
30 to 1 women stay at home? Where, pray tell, did you get THAT figure? Try looking at some real statistics some time.
You don’t date all women. You don’t even date the majority of women. Instead, you offer a sample size of three. Apparently you chose all three based on looks and age. Try asking women out for dates based on something other than their looks and age. Your results will probably be different.
Jessica | Feb 07, 2010
When you have matured a bit you might start to see that what you perceive as feminine entitlement is just old fashioned natural instinct intruding into modern dating behavior.
A women in her early twenties is in her prime childbearing years. If her nature is to want to have children, the men she will be attracted to are those men who can show patience and generosity and a strong instinct to provide for her. Those men with a strong instinct to be good fathers will have a strong instinct to provide for women, and will be most attracted to women who have signs of being good mothers.
Good providers hook up with good nurturers. Stingy men get women with self esteem issues. That’s just how it goes. Blame nature, the same force that brings us tsunamis and tornadoes.
mama outlaw | Feb 07, 2010
The custom of the man paying for things when he takes a woman out dates back to the time when most women earned less than most men. I never particularly expected men to pay for anything when we were going out, though I was always pleased if they did buy me something. I had one boyfriend who I used to pay for more than he paid for me, because he was a student and didn’t have much money. I went out with him for longer than anybody else until my husband.
I am a stay at home wife because someone has to look after the children, and it would have been more expensive, when they were young, to pay someone else to look after them than to look after them myself. Perhaps not so much now they are both at school full time, but there would still be problems arising in the holidays, if one of them was ill etc. I don’t want to have to worry about that sort of thing.
However, as i understand it, it is very rare nowadays for women to stay at home with their children, most mothers are out at work. So I don’t see really what it has got to do with men paying for dates. If you don’t like it,w hy don’t you suggest going dutch to the women you go out with?
Louise C | Feb 07, 2010
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