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Forever Strong (2008)
IMDB rating: 6.60
Plot: A talented-but-troubled rugby player must play against the team his father coaches at the national championship.
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HELP!!! HE SAYS HE WILL COMMIT SUICIDE IF I REJECT HIM!?
gosh this is such a long story but bear with me. so i have known this guy since second grade and we have been "sorta friends" forever. well we hadent seen eachother for a year but we had kept in contact and then he came to a party of mine and we talked a little but now he is obsessed!…( this next part was all in emails he sent my friend and she sent them to me) he says I am the only reason he is alive and that i gave him hope when he wanted to kill himself and knowing he could see me at school each day stopped him from pulling the trigger and if he didnt have me he would end his life. he calls me like every night AND I NEVER GAVE HIM MY NUMBER! and he recently sent this to my friend:
i have an sinister felling ever since i looked at her facebook
> pictures and then i saw the ones when she was in colorado, i realy
> know now it is gonna be hard to clear my mind of her. her entire being
> is to perfect. she is sooo beutiful, every time i talk to her i want
> to tell her how i feel, but… i am afraid.
this is the last thing… he sent this to me like a week ago and idk how to respond. i have tried ignoring it but he pesters me about it. he scares me because he is so obsesed (there were many more emails that he sent that are creepy that i wont include)
here is the one he sent to me:
ther is this girl, i want to tell her, but i am kinda shy, and i am
> afraid that it will freak her out. it isnt creapy i just, i dont
> know.. you hear kids in high school that are dating say ”oh i love
> you”, no they dont. they like each other. they want eachother. if
> they knew what what true love actualy feels like, they would say no
> such thing. when in true love, your feelings tword this person
> eventualy get so strong you cannot contain it. you want to tell the
> entire world, no matter how bad the day has been, if you see no light
> at the end of the tunnel, seeing the persons face makes everything
> worth fighting for, everything worth living for, you get an amazing
> feeling when you see them, you get a warm feeling, it is like no other
> feeling. i can go in for hours and probably even days typing stuff,
> but i will save that for another day. i realy do love her. what should
> i do?
please help i dont want to reject him because he said he will end his life but he scares me and i want him to leave me alone
DARE HIM TO DO IT……. HE WON’T
TypicalQueerness | Jan 29, 2010
tell an adult… make sure he doesnt find out.
Hello | Jan 29, 2010
Say no he wont do it or contact officials he obviously does not know how to use that strategy if you dont like him.
Danny | Jan 29, 2010
someone that needy is so attractive right. call his bluff
Mac | Jan 29, 2010
Just reject him. He won’t do it. The human will to live is stronger than you think. Trust me, I know. He isn’t going to kill himself over rejection. I guarantee it. Blackmail isn’t the way to start a relationship. It’s not a way to live with it either. Don’t bother with him.
Cube | Jan 29, 2010
1. Reject him.
2. Tell your parents.
He’s not going to kill himself, no one ever does. This is control, and this guy is -obsessed-.
He’s claiming he is going to kill himself because it makes you re consider and afraid to say no..so he’s willing to do whatever it takes to make you say you’ll go out with him…not because of you.
Tell your parents and ask them to talk to his parents, or call the police.
Xo | Jan 29, 2010
I would just say no, he probably won’t kill himself. Be nice about it, maybe say you are just getting over a hard break over. Good luck
K@lly | Jan 29, 2010
This is called "emotional blackmail". Consider the fact that this is a kind of abuse, and you will find the strength to tell him to f*ck off.
And for the love of God, please capitalize the words at the beginning of your sentences. That’s why we have "shift" buttons on our keyboards.
Laurie | Jan 29, 2010
You first of all need to talk to your parents and you also should show these emails to his parents or a school counselor. You should not accept him just so he doesn’t "kill" himself. We are all responsible of our own actions. I was in a four year relationship with someone who actually cut their veins in front of me so I would not leave. I called the cops right away and they took this person to a ward. It was horrible. And that will happen to you if you accept him to "help" him and then you want to leave. People like that need professional help. And you can’t help him. Don’t walk away from him, RUN! Especially since you say he scares you. That obviously means you want nothing to do with him. So don’t. And get help now. Don’t wait. Feeling guilty will not help him or make you happy.
Elsa W | Jan 29, 2010
Tell him you don’t want anything to do with him anymore. The faster he’s out of your life the better
Nikolai | Jan 29, 2010
I hate to sound motherly here but listen up, please-
This guy is causing you emotional harm. You may not think so but it is a way bigger deal than you are acting on.
So, if this guy is mentally unstable enough to threaten suicide, stalk you and has developed a completely unrealistic view of you, how much he knows or you and your importance to his existence, he is ill enough to kill you instead of himself.
Mental health is such an important and highly overlooked issue with teens but believe me, you can go from an object of perfection in this guys mind to a mean vindictive bitch that deserves torture should his health deteriorate. You need to take your letter above and any other info anonymously to your school’s guidance counselor, nurse, or any type of an outreach official immediately. You need to file a police report and get his number blocked from calling your home….PLEASE do it in the right order. Police need to be watching out for you before you block his efforts or he could see it as a major rejection and become violent. If you think you need to personally address him, you need to tell him whatever it takes and whatever you can come up with to get him help. I would lie and tell him that you have had a long family history of depression with relatives that have actually attempted suicide and therefore you find it almost insulting and completely insensitive on his part to be casually throwing the threat around. Tell him that you don’t even know if you could ever be attracted to him because you feel that he may be ill and until he can get himself less attached and/or effected by your actions that you can not even consider a relationship with him. Make sure everyone around you, mom dad, school, church, neighbors everyone around you about this guy. Without slander or anything mean, make sure they have a recent photo. This guy could be lurking out your window just fighting the urge to act in a way that he honestly, in his ill mind, thinks you are soliciting.
Know that he has been in your home (your party) and that he feels comfortable enough with your friends to not even try to mask his delusions. He is already to closely involved in your circle so he will continue to gain info about you and invade your life until you feel like there is no escaping him. This is no joke and I hate to be the one to lay it out like this but, this kid could kill you in a jealous rage. He has no intentions on killing himself so you do not allow him to con you into believing that your actions could in any way be a cause of his problems. If he blows himself away tonight and leaves a long letter explaining how this was all do to your rejection, you would be in no way responsible for his actions. People complete suicide because they are ill and unable to cope- Prior to contacting the police you should surf a bit and check his facebook, myspace, tweet whatever and see if you are anywhere within his content. That will give you a better idea on how deep this is and more to support your police report.
Justjo | Jan 29, 2010
He’ll end his life if you leave him? Don’t listen to him, he’s acting like a spoiled brat dump him and I bet you he won’t, and if he does do it, you’re not to blame
easydoesit | Jan 29, 2010
Tell him a story or a poem saying that make him give up you by himself.
this is the site that can help you find a poem that can make him give up you by himself.
http://www.blessedwithlove.com/content/v iew/51/33/
Michelle | Jan 29, 2010
Whether he is seriously considering suicide, you don’t know, so I think you’re wise not to "put him to the test" to find out. Can you talk to him? If you can, tell him the truth – that his passion is too much and you aren’t desirous of a love relationship? Probably not.Tell your parents. His passion is frightening, and you do hear about crimes of passion. This is way too important to handle this yourself. Do you know his parents? Tell them about your concern. Are you in school? Go tell a counselor if you are.Talk to a minister or priest.He talks about eventually the love gets so strong that he can’t contain it. That could indicate that he could act out of control.You may want to talk to the police.
Also, please know that whatever he does, you are not responsible for his feelings or actions.This may be just a boy with a crush, but I hope you don’t treat it that way. I wish I could help you.Please keep trying until you can find someone who can help you. Good luck, really.
bud | Jan 30, 2010
tell your mom and dad, or a counselor at school
he wont do it… he thinks if he tells you he will klll himself, that you will be with him…that is so not right
tell someone….he might try to hurt you girl
Laura A | Jan 30, 2010
